Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (2024)

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (1)

Food, Parenting

ADVERTIsem*nT

This woman swore to herself that she would do everything in her power to allow her kids to enjoy their life free of eating disorders. She knows how much of a toll they can take; she had one.

So you can imagine how devastated the woman was when her 3rd grader stopped eating because the girl started thinking she was “too fat”. However, the mom’s emotions turned even rowdier when she learned that the little one got this ‘lesson’ at school.

This elementary school decided to measure its 3rd graders’ BMI

Image credits: Rawpixel (not the actual photo)

And everyone whose numbers were above the norm received an envelope

ADVERTIsem*nT

Image credits: valeriygoncharukphoto (not the actual photo)

ADVERTIsem*nT

Page 1/4>

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing!

Follow Bored Panda on Google News!

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (2)

Rokas Laurinavičius

Writer, BoredPanda staff

Read more »

Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

Read less »

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (3)

Rokas Laurinavičius

Writer, BoredPanda staff

Read more »

Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

Read less »

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (4)

Gabija Palšytė

Author, BoredPanda staff

Read more »

Gabija is a photo editor at Bored Panda. Before joining the team, she achieved a Professional Bachelor degree in Photography and has been working as a freelance photographer since. She also has a special place in her heart for film photography, movies and nature.

Read less »

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (5)

Gabija Palšytė

Author, BoredPanda staff

Read more »

Gabija is a photo editor at Bored Panda. Before joining the team, she achieved a Professional Bachelor degree in Photography and has been working as a freelance photographer since. She also has a special place in her heart for film photography, movies and nature.

Read less »

What do you think?

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (6)

POST

CatWoman312

CatWoman312

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

I understand childhood obesity is a problem, but this isn’t the way to handle it. This is only setting OP’s daughter for being bullied and/or developing an eating disorder.

RaroaRaroa

RaroaRaroa

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Never in my kid's 11 years of schooling (so far) has her school weighed her. That's not their job. However, if it's some kind of government initiative they have to do in some countries, send a letter to every parent (don't give it to the kids) along with how to address any possible issues WITHOUT kicking off an eating disorder. Kid in the story was only upset the same day as the post was made, so hopefully hunger and good parenting will see her right within 24 hours. The school however, needs dealing to.

Vote comment up

4points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Replies...

MsLou

MsLou

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

This made me cry. I got diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis when I was 7 and the medication made me gain so much weight that I started my ED when I was 9 years old and it was because of the fitness program and getting a letter. I was severely bullied until I went to a private school for high school. The mom is 100% doing the right thing and not sweeping this under the rug. I wish there was something I could do to help her and her child

Vote comment up

35points

Vote comment down

reply

and_a_touch_of_the_’tism

and_a_touch_of_the_’tism

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Same, I have JIA, was it prednisone? That stuff is the woooorst. Crazy bloating, crazy munchies, crazy mood swings.

Vote comment up

12points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Replies...

Brocken Blue

Brocken Blue

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Wow. School administrators here need a giant wake up call. Shaming people publicly about weight is never the way. I remember the funeral I attended in high school for a fellow student who died of her ED. It’s only more heartbreaking the more I think about it

Vote comment up

27points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Comments

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (12)

POST

CatWoman312

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

I understand childhood obesity is a problem, but this isn’t the way to handle it. This is only setting OP’s daughter for being bullied and/or developing an eating disorder.

Vote comment up

49points

Vote comment down

reply

RaroaRaroa

RaroaRaroa

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Never in my kid's 11 years of schooling (so far) has her school weighed her. That's not their job. However, if it's some kind of government initiative they have to do in some countries, send a letter to every parent (don't give it to the kids) along with how to address any possible issues WITHOUT kicking off an eating disorder. Kid in the story was only upset the same day as the post was made, so hopefully hunger and good parenting will see her right within 24 hours. The school however, needs dealing to.

Vote comment up

4points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Replies...

MsLou

MsLou

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

This made me cry. I got diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis when I was 7 and the medication made me gain so much weight that I started my ED when I was 9 years old and it was because of the fitness program and getting a letter. I was severely bullied until I went to a private school for high school. The mom is 100% doing the right thing and not sweeping this under the rug. I wish there was something I could do to help her and her child

Vote comment up

35points

Vote comment down

reply

and_a_touch_of_the_’tism

and_a_touch_of_the_’tism

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Same, I have JIA, was it prednisone? That stuff is the woooorst. Crazy bloating, crazy munchies, crazy mood swings.

Vote comment up

12points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Replies...

Brocken Blue

Brocken Blue

Community Member

Follow

1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
  • Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report

Wow. School administrators here need a giant wake up call. Shaming people publicly about weight is never the way. I remember the funeral I attended in high school for a fellow student who died of her ED. It’s only more heartbreaking the more I think about it

Vote comment up

27points

Vote comment down

reply

Load More Comments

You May Like

9 Western Parenting Beliefs Everyone Thinks Are Healthy That Are Actually Bad For Kids

Karina Babenok

After Bullying His Schoolmate With Cancer, Boy Gets “Haircut Shamed” And Sent Into A Frenzy

Karina Babenok

Boys And Girls Were Left Alone For 5 Days, The Experiment Revealed Eye-Opening Insights On How Both Groups Are Misjudged

Viktorija Ošikaitė

Back to Homepage
More about Parenting
Homepage
Trending
Parenting
Arrow point to left Homepage
Next in Parenting Arrow point to right

Related on Bored Panda

Related on Bored Panda

Bored Panda's Original TV Shows

Trending on Bored Panda

Newsletter

Stay Tuned to Your Favorite Categories

More categories Subscription arrow right

Thank you! You've successfully subscribed to newsletters!

By entering your email and clicking Subscribe, you're agreeing to let us send you customized marketing messages about us and our advertising partners. You are also agreeing to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.

Also on Bored Panda

Mom Is Devastated After Daughter Refuses Food Because School Sent Her A Letter Over Her 2 Lb “Weight Problem” (2024)
Top Articles
Latest Posts
Article information

Author: Arline Emard IV

Last Updated:

Views: 5688

Rating: 4.1 / 5 (72 voted)

Reviews: 95% of readers found this page helpful

Author information

Name: Arline Emard IV

Birthday: 1996-07-10

Address: 8912 Hintz Shore, West Louie, AZ 69363-0747

Phone: +13454700762376

Job: Administration Technician

Hobby: Paintball, Horseback riding, Cycling, Running, Macrame, Playing musical instruments, Soapmaking

Introduction: My name is Arline Emard IV, I am a cheerful, gorgeous, colorful, joyous, excited, super, inquisitive person who loves writing and wants to share my knowledge and understanding with you.